The Relationship Cross
This is a great relationship spread for a new romance. The steps are plain and clear and provide a good look at influences and where you may need to work on it.
Card 1: To the far left of cross and represents the role you play in your relationship. How you have influenced it and what is going on at the level of ordinary awareness and may be blocking your connection to the partner.
Card 2: To the far right of the cross and represents your partner’s role in the relationship and their influence over it. The level of partners' perception showing what quality or influence they can bring to bear on the issue.
Card 3: To the top of the cross and represents the past foundations of the relationship. This is where you started and will show you what the effect has been.
Card 4: To the middle of the cross and represents the current state of the relationship. What’s going on now that probably brought you to the reading.
Card 5: The future based on the information in the other cards and the clarifications you do.
For this reading the clarification cards should start at you of course and then what your role in the past was. Keep the intention in your mind for what you want to clarify then shuffle and pull. Looking towards yourself first always helps because you can’t change or control another person.