Love Horoscope 2021 Pisces
You’ve always had some trouble loving yourself, Pisces. You’d probably never put it that way, but the fact is that you’ve never 100% thought of yourself as available for love, romance, what have you in the same way that others are. You’ve seen yourself apart from all of that and, as a result, you’ve been a little bit empty. It’s not a deficiency on your part. It’s just been the mindset you’ve come up with and the one you know. 2021 is when you’re going to start shifting that mindset to something a little more loving. Don’t worry: you’re not about to start chanting platitudes into a mirror or anything like that. But you are going to shift that attitude of yours and start treating yourself a little better than you have.
January and February 2021 are the perfect months for a bit of self-examination and assessment. You’ll want to do this particularly in the areas of self-love. What are the things that are lovable about you? If this makes you squirm a bit, don’t worry: we’re not asking you to tweet positive affirmations or anything like that. What we do want is for you to start the groundwork for a big change in perspective. You’re probably not used to mining for positive things to say about yourself. Note that this is different from measuring yourself against everyone else. This is a self-contained exercise in looking at yourself as objectively as you possibly can. You’re going to find a little - even a minute amount - of love within yourself that you might not have known was there before.
And that bit of love is going to be the fuel that carries you all the way through May 2021. You’re going to be so surprised by that that it will truly be the wind beneath your wings. Use that power for good, getting you through the hardest parts of your days. Isn’t that so much easier than existing under a dark, grey cloud? Keep a tab on that feeling, because you’re going to work to revisit it through the rest of the year.
Summer 2021 is when you’ll put this newfound love to the test. You’re going to put yourself out there with other people. We know you haven’t been sequestered the entire time up until this point. But we’re guessing that you haven’t really put yourself out there, really extended yourself. Sometimes our self-love can evaporate when we’re confronted by the outside world. You’re going to take some baby steps starting in June to put that self-love to the test. Make some coffee dates with friends of yours this month and see if you can hold on to that feeling of standing tall on the inside. Does it work? Do you need to retreat and re-energize? Keep track of what friends make you feel what way. You might find there are some people you’re going to want to spend more or less time in the future. You want to proceed into the autumn energized and strengthened. What people help encourage that? Who are the people you know who are inspiring?
By the time December 2021 rolls around, you’re going to have a healthy and loving relationship with that person in the mirror (that’s you, Pisces. Just FYI). Getting there is a growing experience, and there’s no growing experience that is without pain and adjustment. You’re up to the challenge, though. You’ve faced worse in your life and you know what you need to do. Put the work in and reap the rewards in 2021 and far, far beyond.