Fiery Sagittarius Moon is like a wildfire slowly snaking through the forest. Put two of them together and you have a fascinating scene. These two don't usually meet each other in the wild and indulge their attraction. It's like when a kitten sees itself in the mirror for the first time: it's confused, attracted, and scared. Sagittarius Moon is used to people being fundamentally different from them, emotionally. This perennial bachelor doesn't require constant contact to develop strong emotional bonds, and it doesn't need to be won over. It knows that it's supposed to win over other people. Sagittarius Moon knows it shouldn't just say what it wants when it wants or do what it wants when it wants. But what happens when it meets someone else who is totally okay with all that stuff?
These two are the best of friends. They may actually start out as platonic friends who slowly develop a romantic relationship, or they may one day realize that they actually have a romantic relationship. They play sports together. They wander around town together. They get into trouble together, and they talk their way out of trouble together. They get messy and track mud in the house together. They hope for the future and look to the Next Big Thing together. And most importantly, they eat together. They just don't worry about settling down and creating an institution of their relationship. They have everything they need without getting married. If they do have a wedding, it will be low-key, fun, and not fussy. It'll probably be outside, and the wedding and the reception will either show a stunning lack of ritual or borrow rituals (and cuisine) from every possible culture.
Chances are that nothing will change when they get married. They'll both continue to live life like a series of adventures, without committing to anything. They won't demand that the other stay or do or not do something. They also won't wait for the other one. The main issue is that as loving, fun, friendly, and optimistic as they can both be, they both have a need to be free that may preclude dealing with the practical or asking the other to make sacrifices.
They may find themselves in conflict when their ambitions clash. At these moments, they're likely to simply walk away. Chances are they still maintain close connections with old friends and old lovers, meaning that should something go wrong, they're always ready to find someone else to hang out with. Sagittarius Moon needs to feel that they're alive, and if they're not having fun with their lover, they'll have fun with someone else...who could turn into their lover
These two can make a life together if there are other stabilizing factors, and if they meet later in life. Young Sagittarius Moons simply don't have the experience or maturity to know what they want and know how to stick things out. However, if they meet later in life, at least after the age of 30, then they're more likely to stay together, to deal with the practical, and to handle boredom or routine well. They may even acquiesce and get married.
Sagittarius Moon likes sex because it's fun and it likes the orgasm. Sex is a friendly thing they do with someone they like. They don't need to be in love. They don't really even need to know the other person's name. The only thing they really need is to have the time and the flexibility to pull it off. Sagittarius Moon would have sex behind a dumpster or under a bridge or on a park bench if the mood strikes it. Put two of them together, and it's like two shameless pixies going at it. There is a very good chance that someone has walked in on them at least once. They're loud, they're messy, and they don't really do foreplay. They don't linger in bed, or cuddle, or whisper sweet nothings to each other. This is where the relieve tension as a couple. They may fall asleep next to each other, but that doesn't mean they won't wake up and decide to order a pizza and watch kung fu movies or do something separate like get on the computer and read Wikipedia until 4 in the morning.
Sagittarius Moon sex is the kind of sex a person has when they have no hang-ups about sex. These two somehow have managed to resist all the cultural training that teaches people where and when to have sex, how, with whom, and how to go about it. And they never get bored with vanilla sex. Anything that's really complicated, or requires a lot of set up or pretense is boring and useless to them, because in the end, the orgasm is still the same.
The saving grace of this relationship is that it's a friendship. No matter what happens, these two will always be best friends. They may, however, encourage each other to remain childlike or irresponsible, because they don't force each other to do anything. This can happen even when they're adults. The key to making sure this works is that they both make an effort toward being more responsible. Even if they have to formally split up responsibilities and reward themselves for reaching goals, they can't simply expect responsibility to come with age.
One of the things they can do to ensure that the relationship has a future is to make a game out of growing up. It sounds strange, but if they compete with each other to see who can be the more responsible, or who can consistently do their chores, or who can keep track of money better, they may naturally develop the skills they need to become mature and responsible love and marriage partners.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure, you're best friends, but can this become a real commitment? If you want to know if you are happy with Sagittarius Moon's lack of commitment, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this Moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Sagittarius, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.