Watery Scorpio Moon is like the deep dark ocean: full of wonders and terrors. Fiery Sagittarius Moon is like a wildfire snaking through the forest. Together, you have a lot of steam and smoke. These two simply don't get each other. Scorpio Moon wants to grasp its lover. Sagittarius Moon wants anything but to be caught. It wants to be appreciated and encouraged, not confined. It just doesn't want the type of intimacy Scorpio Moon wants. Scorpio Moon thinks Sagittarius Moon is glib. It seems to want to intimacy. It seems to listen and understand. Doesn't this mean that Sagittarius Moon agrees? NO! Sagittarius Moon is going to think and do whatever the hell it wants, and was always going to do so.
The main problem is a lack of trust between the two. Scorpio Moon wants intimacy and to know everything...to a point. It doesn't handle hearing what it doesn't like. Sagittarius Moon is much better at taking bad news, but it also doesn't want to come to a consensus agreement of how the two of them feel as a whole. Sagittarius Moon prizes independence. So, if they do get married, it's probably Scorpio Moon dragging Sagittarius Moon down the aisle. Sagittarius Moon, the perennial bachelor, never wants to settle down, and only does so when it thinks its their own idea. Now, Scorpio Moon is capable of tricking Sagittarius Moon into it, and Sagittarius Moon is ever trusting. If it makes it through the wedding, Scorpio Moon will have something to be proud of.
Once they get together, there is one-sided tug-of-war, where Scorpio Moon pulls and Sagittarius Moon does everything it can to not have to have to pick up the rope. Scorpio Moon can't stand that Sagittarius Moon not only insists on having some parts of its life separate, but that it has no plans to share it. Sagittarius Moon can't stand the way Scorpio Moon wants to talk about feelings and resolve issues. Sagittarius Moon would much prefer they simply pretend they don't exist, the way Sagittarius Moon pretends that dirty dishes and laundry don't exist.
Sagittarius Moon takes much longer to either take things seriously or accept responsibility. Scorpio Moon thinks everything is a crisis. These two can't naturally come together and solve problems. Once they try to settle into some semblance of adult life - correction: once Scorpio Moon tries to settle into some semblance of an adult life - they just want two different things. Scorpio Moon wants to progress to a more perfect union. Sagittarius Moon wants to be the best of friends. Scorpio Moon takes relationships more seriously than Sagittarius Moon does. Scorpio Moon thinks that Sagittarius Moon is being disloyal when it has a good time without it. Sagittarius Moon thinks Scorpio Moon will literally burrow into its chest someday.
Scorpio Moon is the most sexual of the signs. It loves everything about sex. Sagittarius Moon sees sex as a friendlier thing. Scorpio Moon wants to be and to have a lover. Sagittarius Moon wants to be best friends with benefits. Scorpio Moon tries to get Sagittarius Moon in the mood, but Sagittarius Moon can't help but make a joke in the middle of foreplay and ruin everything. The problem for Sagittarius is that having to play a role during sex, or to play a game with rules, like seduction, is too constricting. It just wants to get naked and go at it and have an orgasm. It doesn't want to stare in anyone's eyes, or clasp hands, or have its torso tickled with an ice cube. Scorpio Moon doesn't want to have sex on the hood of a car in an abandoned amusement park, or in the back of a car, or just whenever, just because.
Scorpio Moon, on the other hand, likes a slow hand, a firm hand, a quick hand, a gentle hand, depending on what will best bring their partner to orgasm. They need to share this experience with someone. They want to know what it feels like to dominate and surrender. Sex is, for them, a full expression of their being. For Sagittarius Moon, not so much. Neither one really gets what they want without a lot of compromise. At the very least, neither is getting off.
The main problem with this relationship is that these Moons can't balance friendship and love, at least not without a lot of conscious effort. Sagittarius Moon is more comfortable with friendship, and Scorpio Moon is more comfortable with being lovers. Is there really a difference? The intimacy can be just a deep, even though it's different. Sagittarius Moon can teach Scorpio Moon to be more open to the mutual respect of friendship, where two people retain their individuality and spend time together because they like each other. Scorpio Moon can teach Sagittarius Moon to go beyond that and really learn to create a relationship in which two people make a sacrifice to become something bigger and more powerful than they could ever be alone.
If these Moons do get together, they can help each other grow in profound ways. If Scorpio Moon isn't stubborn, and if Sagittarius Moon isn't evasive, then they may have a shot at love.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure, you both like to indulge your curiosity, but can you give a little to get a lot in return? If you want to know if you are happy with Scorpio Moon's suspicious mind, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this Moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Scorpio or Sagittarius, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.