Airy Aquarius Moon is like a tornado that overturns everything. Two of them together could either rip each other apart, or turn into quiet the storm that rips through everything. Two of them getting together is a rare event. Usually, they're so wrapped up in what they're doing that they don't gravitate toward each other. If they do, it's usually to lock horns or to turn against a common enemy. They're so much like each other that they don't hold each other's fascination. However, it can definitely happen that two Aquarius Moons are different enough so that they actually gravitate toward each other.
When that happens, there is a powerful, instant attraction. Aquarius Moon needs to be at the helm of revolution. It has distain for the conventional and the boring. Together, two Aquarius Moons become a force for all that is cutting-edge, radical, and shocking. They're like the kind of couple you see in lower Manhattan that look like they spend half the day figuring out how to dress and style themselves before they go out, and they are definitely on the cutting edge of fashion. They define themselves by what they are not, and what they are not is normal, boring, typical, mainstream. They have radical ideas, like radical music, and they even eat radical food. To Aquarius Moon, the other Aquarius Moon is the only other person on the planet who truly understands them.
Now, they probably don't get married, because that's a mainstream thing to do. But if they do, it will not be typical. Whatever you expect to happen at a wedding will not happen at this wedding. They wouldn't go to a church, or Vegas, or the beach. Think abandoned factory, landfill, in the middle of the desert in the scorching sun. Yes, eschewing all things normal together, now and forever, is an expression of devotion.
Does Aquarius Moon ever actually live to old age? It may. And two of them certainly may. But they don't really age the same way other people do. We all grow old, we all change, and we all mellow to a certain extent, but Aquarius Moon keeps alit the fire in their belly, and this is fueled by the belief that they're absolutely right. Together, the two of them are absolutely right. They may live a counter-culture lifestyle that may either prolong life or prematurely end it. They could be peaceful anarchists. They could be squatter punks. They could be missionaries who travel the Third World. They may be elite hackers who have erased their government-given identities and never give their real names to doctors to leave no paper trail. This is all by design. They may have children, but probably not, as children don't fit into revolutions too well. If they do, the child will have one hell of an interesting childhood. They won't want to be called Mom or Dad, and the child may very well grow up thinking he or she is always on equal footing with adults. Equality is vital to Aquarius Moons, and all the trappings of a boring life, like a career, like a house in the suburbs, like going to PTA meetings, and driving an SUV, and taking the kids to Disneyworld.
These two, should they come together, generally tend to stay together, even though their definition of together is negotiable. They may have an open relationship, and they may not always be physically together. They may even be apart for years. They may cheat on each other, even though they wouldn't see it as cheating per se. And yet, they're always drawn back to each other until their dying days.
This is either the most boring sex life or by far the most interesting. Aquarius Moon likes sex because it breaks taboos and it's fun to explore. However, Aquarius Moon isn't sexual in and of itself. It could just as well masturbate and be happy. It will have sex with a partner for the thrill of it, but it need not be in love. It need not even really know their partner. It's likely that in order for this relationship to last, there is some openness to the relationship, whether it is full-on swinging, or just not telling the other if one gets some action on the side.
But when they do have sex, it's out-and-out strange, like a sex swing hanging from the tree in their backyard, to extremely ordinary, like carrying on a conversation about what to buy at the grocery store while having sex. They don't do a lot of kissing and cuddling and foreplay. They do what they have to in order to get what they want, but other than that, if it doesn't hold onto their curiosity, then they don't care. There is no need for one sweaty person to be so close to another sweaty person and just lie there and do nothing. Since Aquarius Moons tend to not sleep very much, they need not fall asleep in each other's arms. Besides, it's kind of hard to fall asleep next to each other when you're suspended from the ceiling and blindfolded, right?
The main problem with this relationship is that it can quickly become more cerebral than emotional. It's not that Aquarius Moon doesn't have emotions or feel strongly. It's just that this isn't where its focus is, and this isn't what it trusts when making decisions. But there are times when the head doesn't correctly interpret what the heart wants. Aquarius Moon wants to make rational decisions, and that seems wise. But when those decisions conflict with the heart, they may not be so wise.
In this case, Aquarius Moons are quick to either leave relationships that don't seem to have a definite future, or are likely to stay in bad relationships because they think the pros outweigh the cons. But they don't talk about this with their partners. It is crucial that these Aquarius Moons talk to each other about how they feel and do this without judgment or without rationalizing the feelings. To have raw emotions is human, and to want to be loved and to give love is such a wonderful, utterly human experience that would be unwise to miss.
un sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure, you both want to rearrange the world, but can you do it without rearranging each other? If you want to know if you are happy with Aquarius Moon's revolutionary mind, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this Moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Aquarius, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.