Earthy Virgo Moon is like the fertile ground from which crops grow. Airy Aquarius Moon is like a tornado that picks up everything and turns it all over. This combination doesn't usually go well. It's usually Aquarius Moon who finds Virgo Moon and pursues. Aquarius Moon is not a sensitive Moon, and Virgo Moon is. However, Aquarius Moon simply doesn't understand Virgo Moon, and is fascinated for this reason. It doesn't understand why Virgo Moon needs to maintain the status quo when all Aquarius Moon wants to do is disrupt it. Virgo Moon, on the other hand, doesn't understand why Aquarius Moon has this need to ruin a good thing and fix what isn't broken.
If they do get married, if Aquarius Moon concedes to get married, there will be cool, barbed bickering the whole time. Virgo Moon knows what it wants: it wants to make everyone happy. Aquarius Moon wants to make no one happy, not even itself. It would rather get married in a rainstorm than in a cozy chapel. This need to shake things up for the hell of it means Virgo Moon has to clean up messes, which eventually infuriates it.
Virgo Moon needs to be needed. Aquarius Moon needs to push the envelope. Virgo Moon wants everything in its place, and everything to have a place. Aquarius Moon would prefer things askew. Trying to settle down and share a life may be damned near impossible. Yes, they can share a laugh and a duel of wits, but as far as hunkering down and having a home, family, and future, they want two very different things. Virgo Moon is willing to focus on the details of life, like keeping a clean house, while all Aquarius Moon wants to do is question why Virgo Moon does what it does.
Aquarius Moon wants to tear apart the old rulebook and completely rewrite it. This doesn't sit well with Virgo Moon at all, who doesn't like getting into a routine only to have it ripped away and replaced with a new one. It worked around Aquarius Moon, letting it think it's in charge, ignoring it like a self-declared king without a throne or a crown, and cleaning up the messes around it. Eventually, they make peace with each other... in death.
Virgo Moon likes sex because sex allows it to fully engage the senses in a private space. Aquarius Moon likes sex because it allows it to confront and break taboos. Aquarius Moon isn't a sensual Moon; it may be one of the least sensual. Foreplay, talking, giggling, having sex in a bed, or knowing the name of your partner: these are details Aquarius Moon can live without. Virgo Moon, on the other hand, revels in monogamy and getting to know its partner. Aquarius Moon is more excited by novelty than the familiar. Virgo Moon is most excited by the prospect of being accepted by a known partner and knowing how to turn on a known partner.
And this tends to simply not work. Now, surprisingly, they can both separate love and sex. Virgo Moon can try to give Aquarius Moon what it wants, but it just can't separate the idea of focusing on the details. It needs to do the touching and the kissing. It needs to know what reliable moves makes the partner ready for sex. Aquarius Moon doesn't want to do the same thing twice. It wants to involve other people. Virgo Moon cannot swing. It just takes too much effort to figure out how to please more than one person at a time and do it right.
The best way to try to make this one work is to give each other a lot of space. These Moons should make no demands of each other. They probably shouldn't even live together. If they do live together, there has to be some clear ground rules, as if they are roommates. They may be better off having separate bedrooms, since Virgo Moon tends to be an early riser, and Aquarius Moon tends to be a bit of an insomniac.
If Aquarius Moon can understand that there is no party without the bills being paid, and if Virgo Moon can understand that social rules are just an invention, something people made in their heads, this can work. Will either of these two change, though? Aquarius Moon is the more stubborn of the two, and Virgo Moon has a way of getting around stubborn people.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure they seem brainy, but are they innovative? If you want to know if you are happy with Virgo Moon's unwavering sensibility, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this Moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Virgo or Aquarius, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.