Airy Gemini Moon is either a gentle breeze or a tornado that overturns everything in its path. Earthy Virgo Moon is like the plowed land, or fields of wheat, or perhaps a pile of dust ready to be swept. What happens when a tornado sweeps across a farm? Well, chances are there's no farm left, just dust. Now, these two Moons can be very sweet on their own, but they just bring out the worst in each other.
Virgo Moon needs order and discernment. It needs to analyze everything, figure out what is important, and go about the business of separating the important from the trivial. Gemini Moon loves it all in one big mess. If Virgo Moon was a meal, it would be (cooked) sushi: clean, neat, separate and each piece to be savored one by one with minimal enhancement. If Gemini Moon was a meal, it would be a Cobb salad, with different vegetables, meats, and cheeses, with different textures and tastes, to be eaten all together.
Put them together and you have a food fight that Virgo Moon has to clean up. Gemini Moon wants to be in the know and know everything. Virgo Moon only wants to know what is important and useful. Gemini Moon needs to be informed. Virgo Moon needs to be competent. Virgo Moon gets sick of taking care of business while Gemini Moon is a social butterfly. Chances are, Virgo Moon gets rid of Gemini Moon very quickly, unless it feels it can change Gemini Moon, which can lead to a very unhappy marriage of two very frustrated people.
Virgo Moon has a martyr complex. It sacrifices and slaves for the better of everyone else. It does the work no one else wants to do, the things that no one appreciates until their gone. Virgo Moon shows love by doing the laundry, folding your clothes, and getting you soup when you're sick. It feels loved when others appreciate this and return with care of their own. Gemini Moon, on the other hand, feels loved when told it is loved and when it is simply allowed to talk. It doesn't want to solve problems or make decisions. Virgo Moon wants nothing more than to solve problems.
hey're both nervous people, and when something is wrong, they go over it in their heads over and over again. Virgo Moon thinks of how to fix it, while Gemini Moon tries to think of how it was right after all. Someone else has to take the initiative to confront the problem, but neither do this. Eventually, they drift away, or one of them finally has enough and just packs up and goes where they feel wanted.
Airy Gemini Moon likes sex to do something with someone and to explore an interest. Earthy Virgo Moon is actually sensual, and it indulges its senses in sex to please its partner and take a break from the work of being alive. They're both good with their hands, and they both understand anatomy. The problem is that they're both caught up in pleasing each other and forget how to enjoy sex for themselves. Since they're both openly critical of what the other is doing, sex becomes more of a sport of not screwing it up.
Something that could help them is to get the Kama Sutra and actually try different sexual positions in a joint, analytical effort to figure out which one is the best. They could make sex a scientific exploration, objectively studying how their own bodies react to sex. This would engage their minds in a way that's normal for them and make sex something to look forward to at night.
Mercury rules both Gemini Moon and Virgo Moon. However, Mercury manifests different sides in these Moons. While both Moons are detail-oriented and like to multi-task, they do this for different reasons. Gemini Moon likes to have everything up in the air. Virgo Moon needs to go through the process of settling things in their proper place. They get in each other's way.
Sex could be one way to keep them together, but after a while, that may bore them if there isn't anything else to keep them together. Gemini Moon needs to appreciate how Virgo Moon works to keep the relationship going. Virgo Moon makes life easier for Gemini Moon. In turn, Virgo Moon has to appreciate Gemini Moon's need to weigh all information and take it all in, no what Virgo Moon thinks of something.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure, you get along well, but will they throw your life into chaos?
If you want to know if Gemini Moon's multitasking will drive you crazy, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this Moon sign.
To determine if your Moon is in Gemini or Virgo, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.