Earthy Virgo Moon is like the fertile ground from which crops grow. Airy Libra Moon is like the breeze that moves the leaves in the trees. Air dries up land, and soil stops air from moving. These two seem familiar to each other at first, because they both need for things to go smoothly. Virgo Moon is always wiling to lend indecisive Libra Moon a hand, and Libra Moon always lets Virgo Moon know that its service is appreciated. This is, in a sense, a relationship akin to a knight and his squire: Libra Moon is the one who moves forward and gets all the glory, and Virgo Moon is the one who carries the equipment, readies the horse, and polishes the armor.
Libra Moon doesn't see this as a relationship that is unequal, and perhaps behind closed doors, it isn't. Publicly, it looks like Virgo Moon is happy to play second fiddle to Libra Moon. Everyone thinks Libra so beautiful, so good, so smart, so funny, so great... and they don't think so much of Virgo Moon. Virgo Moon on its own is just fine. In fact, it is quite needed and wanted in many of the circles it runs in, but standing in Libra Moon's shadow, it just looks small. At worst, people seem to regard Virgo Moon with pity. This is usually because these two often end up around Libra Moon's people most of the time, and Virgo Moon just suffers in silence.
Virgo Moon and Libra Moon may marry. Libra Moon will probably get everything it wants, and Virgo Moon will make sure it happens. One of the biggest things about Libra Moon is that if not told point-blank that something in wrong, it just assumes that nothing is wrong. Virgo Moon, on the other hand, will complain and propose a solution, but will not actually venture forth with a solution. Libra Moon knows when they think something is wrong, and they will try to solve the problem, but only with assurance that it is what the other person wants. They can be surprisingly single-minded, almost manipulative, when they think they have everyone's approval.
Virgo Moon, however, doesn't fall for charm after a while, and grows resentful of Libra Moon. These two can actually make the other more manipulative. Virgo Moon will arrange things ever so slightly in their favor - arranging the spending, arranging the house, working late, etc. - until their partner is totally dependent on them. Libra Moon can make a person feel emotionally lost without them, and they can subtly turn other people against others. Together, these two Moons at their worst silently declare war and stay together to find out who is the victor.
Earthy Virgo Moon likes sex because it allows it to explore sensuality fully. It wants to have a quiet, safe space to let down its guard and enjoy the physical delights of sex. Meanwhile, Libra Moon wants to have sex because having sex is a fun thing to do with another person and because it lets them know that others think its attractive enough to bed. Virgo Moon is near-worshipful of Libra Moon, who is sent into ecstasy by Virgo Moon's deft and precise movements. Virgo Moon memorizes where and how Libra Moon wants to be touched. Libra Moon lets Virgo Moon know when it's doing a good job.
The problem is that Libra Moon doesn't really reciprocate. It's the pillow queen of Moons, and Virgo Moon needs to be given physical love back. If Libra Moon finished first, it rolls over and falls asleep. Virgo Moon, however, is not the aggressive Moon that would grab Libra Moon and make it do what it wants. It is not the bodice-ripping hero of Libra Moon's dreams, and Libra Moon ends up frustrated, too.
The best way to make this work is for these Moons to take turns taking initiative as a leader. Libra Moon can take initiative, but it is not a natural leader, and Virgo Moon can arrange things, but that doesn't make it a natural born leader, either. If Virgo Moon can understand that Libra Moon feels secure when someone is the leader and not merely supportive, it may feel free to be more assertive. Likewise, if Libra Moon can understand that Virgo Moon won't rock the boat, but won't necessarily be happy just following Libra Moon along.
In this situation, it may be best for the two of them to have a lot of other people in their lives, like extended family and friends who are singularly loyal to one person or the other. So long as everyone doesn't get involved if there is conflict, just knowing that each person has people and has a support network may be the thing to make each Moon more confident in asserting themselves.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure, you they are very attentive, but is this your knight in shining armor? If you want to know if you are happy with Virgo Moon's quiet service, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this Moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Virgo or Libra, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.