It is hard to imagine how Aries Moon and Virgo Moon come together. It may be out of pure fascination first. Aries Moon is the emotional equivalent of running headfirst into a brick wall in attempt to get to the other side. Virgo Moon is cautious, conscientious, and fearful. It analyzes feelings and makes decisions based on what is rational and what seems to cause the least harm. Aries Moon doesn't have a lot of fear. Fear takes time to think about, and Aries Moon is too impulsive for that. Truthfully, these moons have something the other lacks.
Earthy Virgo Moon is like the soil that the plough turns over. Its richness is below the surface. Fiery Aries Moon is the spark that ignites. Earth stamps out fire, and fire dries out earth and turns it into crust. Virgo Moon is refined and careful. It doesn't demand attention, praise, or reward. Aries Moon lives to be celebrated for what it is. Together, they two wear each other out.
Aries Moon doesn't get the praise and encouragement it needs from exacting Virgo Moon. Virgo Moon is driven insane by Aries Moon's inattention to detail and disregard for order. Virgo Moon becomes resentful of cleaning up after Aries Moon.
Aries Moon always wants to be a part of the next big thing. Virgo Moon wants to wait and see. This permeates all sorts of decisions, from career moves to buying a stereo. If you have been out shopping and seen a couple where one wants to spend thousands of dollars on the latest gadget right there and then, and the other is trying to reason with their dazzled partner or at least get them to do some comparison shopping, you may have an Aries Moon/Virgo Moon couple.
These two don't deal with problems the same way. Virgo Moon believes that an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Aries Moon assumes that everything will be fine and that it can personally fix any problem. Virgo Moon knows it will be the one doing all the fixing. But they don't argue. The resentment simmers until one day, Aries Moon finds its suitcases on the doorstep and its credit cards cancelled.
Aries Moon will not get sex unless it comes to bed showered, with teeth brushed and flossed. While it doesn't mind that sex is not a sanitary endeavor, Virgo Moon does. Virgo Moon cannot relax if it feels dirty, or if the recycling needs sorting, or if the front door is unlocked, or if they had something at dinner that doesn't agree with them, or if their partner accidentally brushes up against a ticklish spot.
Aries Moon is pretty much ready for sex when the notion strikes them. They aren't concerned with doing things they right way, or the conventional way. They lose interest if sex comes with too many steps to follow. Virgo may be fussy, but it is still an Earth sign, and sensuality is important to them. It is sacred. It may not kiss in public, but it needs to know that behind closed doors, sex is exalted and the highest form of sharing. Aries Moon just doesn't see sex as that big a deal.
The best thing to do is to give Aries Moon a challenge. It will conform to expectations if Virgo Moon gives it mini-rewards on the way. Yes, it may seem strange, but if Aries Moon can go out if it finishes the dishes, it will do that. It is happy to give up certain responsibilities to gain freedoms.
Virgo Moon may have to learn that their relationship is a safe space to simply be themselves and that Aries Moon can prove it is reliable if given feedback and encouragement to do so. This Moon doesn't dole out compliments or rewards often, but Aries Moon needs evidence that it is doing the right thing. Yes, this may seem like Aries Moon is kind of like a pet, but it is puppy-like. Like a puppy, Aries Moon responds to positive reinforcement. If Virgo Moon can hold its sharp tongue, it can bring out the best in Aries Moon.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Perhaps you like each other now, but will they try to change you? If you want to know if you want rough-around-the-edges Aries Moon, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with the moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Aries or Virgo, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.