Fiery Leo Moon is like a fire in the hearth. It warms all who comes to it. Earthy Virgo Moon is like the fertile soil in which plants grow. A campfire is warm and inviting, but eventually, it turns to ash. This is kind of what happens with this combination. Leo Moon needs to be admired. Virgo Moon needs perfection. While this would seem to be a pretty good combination at first glance, it actually isn't in the long run. Leo Moon is out there. It is enthusiastic. More is more to Leo Moon. On the other hand, Virgo Moon is modest and prefers what is simple and clean. If Virgo Moon were a hairstyle, it would be a clean, sleek bobcut. If Leo Moon were a woman's hairstyle, it would be a Dolly Parton wig.
These two probably get on each other's nerves from the beginning. Virgo Moon wants to fix Leo Moon and make it more of an adult. Leo Moon suddenly decides it needs to help Virgo Moon loosen up and enjoy life. There is a chance that they can do this for each other, if they have the patience. If they do get married, it will require a compromise that Leo Moon isn't capable of. Virgo Moon would prefer something simple, elegant, perhaps outside, and not costing too much. Leo Moon doesn't want to get married outside because it would ruin its hair, and money is no object to Leo Moon. It doesn't expect rainy days or lean times in the future, while Virgo Moon is always worried about the future.
In a way, this works because Leo Moon gets to be the center of attention while Virgo Moon fusses endlessly over it. The main problem is that Virgo Moon is the Ant, and Leo Moon is the grasshopper. Leo Moon never thinks about the future. It doesn't like to plan or save. That's boring! What's the point of life if you can't enjoy it right now? On the other hand, Virgo Moon always worries. It doesn't want to be broke because Leo Moon maxed out the credit card. It doesn't want a closet full of clothes that will be out of style next year. It certainly doesn't want a house full of brightly-colored decorations, and it doesn't want to go out all the time or take pictures of itself.
Leo Moon, on the other hand, feels as if Virgo Moon is a stick in the mud that strives to ruin the fun. Virgo Moon doesn't want to go out. It doesn't want to be at the party. It doesn't want to do the new thing. It doesn't want to be on the scene. It doesn't want to be the center of attention... which is fine for Leo Moon. The main issue is that Leo Moon doesn't embrace change well while Virgo Moon is always on the lookout for changes and what to do when they arrive. It feels that Leo Moon is a liability rather than an asset.
Leo Moon likes sex because it likes feeling sexy and knowing it is good at sex. Virgo Moon is a very sensual sign that likes sex because it is a time when it can explore sensuality fully. Virgo Moon is good with its hands. It finds out what its lover wants and gives it to them with precision. Yes, it may be predictable. It may even seem choreographed, by Leo Moon doesn't mind. It doesn't need spontaneity, as it finds something it likes and does it. It doesn't really need weird sex, and Leo Moon doesn't have to compete with Virgo Moon to see who of the two of them is the best lover.
Leo Moon makes its pleasure known, but Virgo Moon shudders at the thought of being cheered on, and especially of anyone hearing or knowing it. Leo Moon doesn't quite understand why Virgo Moon doesn't appreciate Leo Moon telling all its friends (and even family) what an amazing lover it is. This is, after all, what Leo Moon has to offer.
Not that it doesn't try to make Virgo Moon happy. The problem is that Virgo Moon has to feel hidden away from the world to relax enough to enjoy sex, and this Moon needs to feel hidden away from the world enough to feel that it can engage in some of its kinks, because it does have them. If Leo Moon is game for keeping it private, Virgo Moon lets Leo Moon be the center of its (many) kinks.
The main problem is privacy. Virgo Moon is very private. It needs to feel safe from the world to have intimacy. Leo Moon is not so private. It needs to be standing in front of the world. For this relationship to work, these two will have to set ground rules and honor them no matter what.
Leo Moon also has to learn to appreciate Virgo Moon's need to have things planned and organized. Virgo Moon has to learn to make room for a little spontaneity. They can compromise by setting up a date night where they set aside a strict budget to have fun doing whatever Leo Moon wants to do. The trouble is sticking to this; Virgo Moon is likely to cave in.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure, they look good, but are they as loud as they look? If you want to know if you are happy with Leo Moon's wanton abandon, must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this Moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Leo or Virgo, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.