Watery Cancer Moon is like the rain that nourishes the soil so that the crops grow. Earthy Virgo Moon is like the fertile soil where crops are planted. Together, you have success. This is a great match. They understand what the other wants, and they have the natural ability to help the other. Cancer Moon wants a secure home and family. Virgo Moon wants perfection and to be needed. It will take care of all the details that make a home secure. Cancer Moon will use its imagination and sense of congeniality to create a warm and healthy hideaway from the world so Virgo Moon can rest.
They are both Moons that tend to be put-upon by others, so it is a good thing when they find each other. They appreciate what the other one does. Virgo Moon loves coming home to a well-cooked dinner, and Cancer Moon loves lying down on a crisp, perfectly made bed. They know how to give each other what they need. Virgo Moon remembers every anniversary, and Cancer Moon knows why it's important to not wear shoes in the house.
Cancer Moon wants to get married because it wanted to be married. Virgo Moon will get married when it knows that it has found someone who will work with them to create the perfect life. It will probably be an intimate affair and not too extravagant. After all, they have a house, a family, and a life to save up for. They know that the work is just beginning, and marriage is the first step on a long road.
Cancer Moon and Virgo Moon may not be nearly as boring as they seem. But they are kind of boring. This is a masterful ballet of emotions. Cancer Moon is more likely to be the more emotionally demonstrative of the two. It wants what it wants, and if it doesn't get it, it cries out, like a baby. Virgo Moon probably comes to Cancer Moon's assistance once or twice, but then afterward, it lets Cancer Moon cry it out. After all, what Virgo Moon knows is that Cancer Moon actually wants to cry out and stamp their feet and yell and let all their emotions out.
These two will grow old together, sit on the porch, and watch the world go by. Life will be very predictable, and very secure. These are two people in it for the long haul. Virgo Moon wants to succeed at keeping something alive, like a marriage (or Cancer Moon), and Cancer Moon wants someone to take care of and someone to take care of them. You'll know what day of the week it is by whatever they're having for dinner or what chores need to be done. You'll know what holiday it is by which relatives they're visiting or which family dinner they're making.
If you're not Virgo Moon or Cancer Moon, you're probably snoring. But this excites them. All this routine is the sign of a calm and prosperous life. Even if it is boring.
Cancer Moon loves sex because it reinforces the emotional bond. Virgo Moon loves sex because it helps them calm down. Virgo Moon is actually quite sensual, and sex fills up all its senses. It is a technically proficient lover, and it gives what the other one wants. Cancer Moon wraps Virgo Moon up in a sexual ambience to fill up the senses, with wine, music, candles, and a soft bed. The creation of a fantasy space far away from the world helps Virgo Moon lighten up.
And when Virgo Moon lightens up, it opens up. Virgo Moon can be kind of freak in bed, given the right partner. It either needs absolutely cleanliness, or it gets off on dirtiness. It likes to play doctor and cops and robbers, and all sorts of role- playing between unequal parties. Imaginative Cancer Moon is absolutely willing to play too.
If you live below a couple who moans and cry out different names to each other each night, then try to shush each other, chances are you live below Cancer Moon and Virgo Moon.
The main snag with this relationship is that it can end up being more about duty than about feelings. They feel a sense of obligation to each other, and they tend to express their love in what they do for the other. Cancer Moon feeds Virgo Moon, and Virgo Moon cleans up after Cancer Moon. They may be so caught up in their responsibilities, hobbies, and activities that they forget to see each other and simply be together. There is a chance that once the kids grow up and leave the house, and they are older and have to spend more time together, that they're out of practice simply being with each other.
They will secretly miss each other all the while though, and this is something they can bring up when they feel underappreciated. They will have to take time out of their busy schedules to be alone together. Taking a trip alone on a regular basis - without friends, without family, without the kids - or having a regularly scheduled date night may be just the thing to keep them together.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure, you get along well, but will they keep calm in the face of adversity? If you want to know if you are happy with Cancer Moon as a perpetual homebody, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this Moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Cancer or Virgo, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.