There are few instances in which a Taurus Moon and Aquarius Moon who are not born into the same family would spend any significant amount of time together. Perhaps trapped in an elevator, or accidentally handcuffed together during a prank. Airy Aquarius Moon is like a tornado that overturns everything, including the earth. Earthy Taurus Moon is like the soil in which plants grow. Whirling air destroys the soil and uproots anything in its path. Earth blocks and dissipates air.
If you take zany, unconventional Aquarius Moon, with its strange ways of showing love and put it with conventional Taurus Moon, which absolutely expects typical, even stereotypical signs of affection, you get two frustrated and disappointed people. These two stubborn Moon signs both think that the other is dead wrong. Aquarius Moon thinks Taurus Moon is an unevolved philistine. Taurus Moon thinks Aquarius Moon is actually a space alien wearing a people suit.
Aquarius Moon rationalizes emotion and doesn't place much stock in the material world. It is focused on what could be after it is done destroying and rebuilding the world. Aquarius Moon feels secure when it can experiment and break taboos. Taurus Moon focuses on what can be perceived with the senses and takes great pleasure in the beauty of the physical world. These two don't understand what makes the other feel secure, but moreover, don't appreciate what makes the other feel secure.
If these two get engaged, Hell has not only frozen over, but something must be afoot. Aquarius Moon doesn't necessarily believe in conventional marriage, and if it does choose to get married, it will be on its own terms. Taurus Moon wants the white dress, the preacher, the church, and the bouquets. Aquarius Moon wants to do anything besides what is traditional. It fully intends to create its own traditions.
The main problem is that they are too stubborn to compromise. Instead of finding a happy place in the middle, Aquarius Moon belittles Taurus Moon, who erupts in anger. Aquarius Moon isn't comfortable with passion displays of emotion, so it thinks that it is correct, that Taurus Moon is unevolved. Taurus Moon thinks Aquarius Moon lacks basic human warmth and lets it know.
Aquarius Moon actually enjoys getting a rise out of Taurus Moon. It doesn't have a need to control Taurus Moon - even though it totally knows how to push its buttons - but it likes to experiment and see the results. Taurus Moon can be the unwitting test subject. Aquarius Moon doesn't mean to be cruel. It just doesn't understand how someone could be so touchy. Taurus Moon, who is usually more even-tempered, is vulnerable to frustration when emotions and relationships are talked about so coolly.
These two won't grow old together by choice. If they do, it is because they have no choice, or because they were both too lazy to get a divorce. Aquarius Moon doesn't want to give Taurus Moon the fidelity it needs. Aquarius Moon may not cheat, but it doesn't want to spend all its time home alone on the sofa with Taurus Moon watching re-runs of Cops. Taurus Moon hates that Aquarius Moon keeps inviting friends over. There is no peace in the house, and the house is where Taurus Moon retreats from the world.
So, Aquarius Moon starts to go out more. It finds people willing to experiment, and then it runs off and joins a commune, leaving Taurus Moon on the sofa with the remote control.
Aquarius Moon either doesn't want to have sex, or wants anything but vanilla sex. Sex, for Aquarius Moon, is a way to indulge curiosity and understand the human experience better. Taurus Moon is the consummate lover who indulges all of their senses through sex. Vanilla sex can be very enriching and comforting to them. Aquarius Moon struggles to go through the motions of pleasing Taurus Moon.
Taurus Moon tries to please Aquarius Moon, but Aquarius Moon knows that Taurus Moon isn't having fun. It doesn't want to be tied up to the bed, and it doesn't want to invite other couples into the bedroom. It certainly doesn't want to spend $6000 on a silicone sex doll and give it a name or a place at the dinner table, either.
If this relationship can work, it will take a lot of work for both Moons. Aquarius Moon has to learn to be more sensitive. It will have to acknowledge its own emotions and learn to express them without rationalizing them first. This can take a while, but Taurus Moon is patient.
Taurus Moon, on the other hand, has to learn that Aquarius Moon needs to challenge the status quo. This is more problematic, because Taurus Moon seeks its fortune by living in accordance with the status quo. The best thing it could do is give Aquarius Moon enough space to do its thing so long as it doesn't bring any of the weirdness home or into the relationship. But that may be much easier said than done.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure, you get along well, but will they bore you to death? If you want to know if Taurus Moon has the brains to keep up with you, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Taurus or Pisces, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.