Airy Aquarius Moon is like a tornado that overturns everything in its path. Watery Pisces Moon is like a meandering river that turns into a waterfall that crashes to earth. Here, we have probably the least emotionally sensitive Moon in Aquarius and the most emotionally sensitive Moon in Pisces trying to come together. It may very well begin with an apology once Aquarius Moon realizes that the joke it just made hurt Pisces Moon's feeling. This is the start to a theme in the relationship. Aquarius Moon is doing it's thing, and saying what it wants and doing what it wants, trying to shock and disturb, and Pisces Moon thinks it's all its fault that Aquarius Moon has gone mad. Aquarius Moon is impersonal, and Pisces Moon is personal. And as much as Aquarius Moon may inadvertently hurt Pisces Moon, Pisces Moon still wants to be around. See, Pisces Moon is attracted to those that hurt it. They want to change the person.
Aquarius Moon may have no idea what Pisces Moon wants from it. Here's this shy, swishing, soft-voiced person who doesn't seem to be deterred by Aquarius Moon's shocking ways and cold logic. It seems that the stranger Aquarius Moon is, the more Pisces Moon is around. So, they start dating. Now, Pisces Moon can teach Aquarius Moon how to be more sensitive, but it doesn't usually work, as Aquarius Moon is trying to figure out what the hell Pisces Moon is crying about now. If they do get married, it may be as a way of apologizing for whatever Pisces Moon thinks Aquarius Moon has done. Not the best reason for marrying by far, right?
Aquarius Moon is still confused by Pisces Moon after marriage, and things get worse, when Pisces Moon starts expecting Aquarius Moon to be home more often. Suddenly, having a lot of friends outside the marriage is a problem, as is staying up all night, as is inviting friends to sleep on the sofa every night. Pisces Moon doesn't draw boundaries though. It sulks. Now, Aquarius Moon never seems to intuit what an appropriate boundary would be, because it assumed that Pisces Moon must be okay with things because they're married. They drift apart.
Pisces Moon is probably the one who leaves. Pisces Moon just packs up and leaves, and never comes back, once again leaving Aquarius Moon to wonder what it did wrong. It know what it did; it just didn't think it was that bad. But it was. Pisces Moon needs Aquarius Moon to hold their relationship above all other relationships, but Aquarius Moon can't do this. It cannot see its marriage as being fundamentally way more important than old and dear friendships. With all this spinning of the wheels, they tend to not accomplish much together. All the milestones of marriage may be put on the backburner before they can figure out how to talk to each other without conflict.
Aquarius Moon likes sex because it enjoys exploring taboos. It also likes to relieve stress, and in this relationship, there is a lot of it. Pisces Moon, on the other hand, finds sex to be one of the most intimate things two people can do, and it holds sex to be sacred. Aquarius Moon does not. It doesn't need to be in love, and it doesn't need to really have any long-term connection to someone to have sex. It can totally do an orgy without going home and taking a four-hour long shower. Pisces Moon, on the other hand, generally needs some sort of emotional connection to someone before they have sex. They will wait for the perfect time, and at that time, Pisces Moon expects to be seduced.
Aquarius Moon isn't exactly a master at seduction. This moon will have a conversation about what happened at work while having sex. They'll do that even if they work in an emergency room or a wastewater treatment plant. Not exactly sexy, and Pisces Moon gets tired of telling Aquarius Moon to change the subject and just starts fantasizing about being with someone else, someone totally not like Aquarius Moon at all, while they have sex. Then, Pisces Moon really gets into those fantasies, and really starts to connect with them more than with Aquarius Moon, leaving Aquarius Moon to wonder what's wrong. It may wrongly assume that what they need is more sexual excitement, but after coming home with the latest sex toy and a PVC rubber suit, it quickly finds out that novelty isn't going to get Pisces Moon back. Of course, someone else might absolutely love to use the latest sex toy and a PVC rubber suit, so while Pisces Moon is watching its favorite romance films, Aquarius Moon is calling home, saying it has to work late.
The main problem here is that neither one is really confrontational. If they were, this would be an explosive relationship. They fundamentally like each other. The problem is that Pisces Moon doesn't open up completely to Aquarius Moon because it takes things so personally. It never lets Aquarius Moon really see the rich inner world it carries with it all the time, the one in which Pisces Moon imagines them having a perfect relationship. If so, Aquarius Moon would understand what Pisces Moon wants.
Likewise, if Pisces Moon learns to not become sad if they feel Aquarius Moon is being insensitive and to ask why Aquarius Moon said whatever they did, they would learn something. And what they could learn from each other would also be beneficial. It would do Pisces Moon some good to learn to think things through rationally instead of totally relying on feelings. It would help Aquarius Moon understand where people are coming from by listening to Pisces Moon talk about its feelings.
Sun sign compatibility will get you so far. Sure, you both want to transcend the ordinary, but can you transcend your own pre-conceived notions? If you want to know if you are happy with Aquarius Moon's cold logic, you must know if your Moon sign is compatible with this Moon sign. To determine if your Moon is in Aquarius or Pisces, put your birth date and birth time in our Natal Chart Calculator and do the same for your partner.
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