Aries Compatibility

Aries Attributes

As the Knight-errant of the Zodiac, the Ram is constantly searching the world for mighty dragons to slay. Courageous and somewhat reckless, Aries can be found right in the thick of the action. Fortunately for the Ram, its vivacious personality is very attractive, and Aries generally has many comrades to join it in its quests. Having a mate as one of these companions is a dream dear to the Ram’s heart.

Competition plays a big part of the Ram’s life. Aries is an ardent fan of our modern-day version of the Roman Coliseum – namely professional sports. One of the Ram’s favorite pastimes is cheering its team on whether in the stadium with crowd or at the local sports bar with a group of friends. When it comes to sports, simply observing others play doesn’t satisfy completely. Athletic itself, Aries often participates in team sports as well as the more extreme solo endeavors.

Despite its wildness in physical activities and its easy-going temperament in general, the Ram is quite strict in one area. Aries has an exacting code of ethics. Honesty is very important to the Ram and Aries definitely practices what preaches. While the Ram can be quite tactless at times, there’s no doubt that Aries means what it says. Even though the Ram’s forthright way of speaking can be a bit painful to its subject, Aries doesn’t intend to hurt. The Ram isn’t sensitive itself and has a hard time putting itself into someone else’s place.

Volunteer appeals to the Ram’s generous nature. Of course, when Aries applies its phenomenal energy to a project, it’s quite likely that the Ram will simply take over. Aries has a very high estimation of its own opinion and way of doing things, so the Ram can be quite overbearing in these situations. This may not actually be a drawback as Aries will redouble the amount of drive and vigor it applies to any project under its control.

Elements that Attract the Ram

In order to get anywhere with Aries, you must be able to challenge the Ram from the very beginning. Aries isn’t interested in anything easily accessible and can quickly lose interest if there is some kind of additional challenge after the object of pursuit has been captured. It’s vital that a person who is interested in catching and keeping an Aries remains a bit of a mystery. It is also important for the Ram’s partner to have separate activities and interests to keep things fresh. This will keep Aries on the hunt since it will feel it hasn’t quite succeeded yet.

The Ram has a boundless supply of energy and anyone who hopes to keep Aries happy needs to be able to keep up most of the time. Stillness quickly becomes boring to the Ram and it will chafe at any restraint. While Aries is okay with its mate staying behind occasionally, it wants a companion that likes to do things together. This isn’t to say you have to love everything the Ram does but plan to spend a fair amount of time in physical undertakings, or at least watching while Aries does so.

Aries loves to be helpful and is very generous with its time and energy. A partner that will join in while the Ram volunteers at a soup kitchen, spends the afternoon at a neighborhood cleanup party, or helps a family member with home improvement projects will truly endear themselves to big-hearted Aries. Lest you be worried, you don’t have to actually be proficient at any of these activities, the Ram will be content just to have you there handing it nails and spending time together.

Honesty is a big draw for the Ram. As an Aries mate, be prepared to hear its opinion without any sugar-coating. If you are the sensitive type, you may have to remind yourself that the Ram isn’t trying to be hurtful. Aries simply states what it considers to be the truth without much thought of how it might affect the recipient. On the flip side, you’ll be able to tell your Ram what you really think without many negative repercussions.

It’s important that you keep your relationship with Aries light and fun. The Ram isn’t looking for profound emotional connection and emotional pyrotechnics leave it feeling lost and bewildered. Aries is unlikely to participate in dramatic fights, mostly it will just shrug off your anger and go about its merry way. The best way to show your affection for the Ram is by performing little acts of kindness and spending time having fun together.

Elements that Repel the Ram

The Ram is pretty difficult to repel once it has made up its mind that you are the partner it wants. Perhaps the quickest way to make Aries hit the road is to be dishonest. The Ram doesn’t have time to check up on someone and isn’t interested in a partner it can’t trust.

Too much drama or insistence on a lot of emotional connectedness will also drive Aries away. The Ram just isn’t built for deep emotional connection and won’t understand what you are looking for. This can lead to a lot of frustration and if you continue to insist, Aries will simply fade away.

Acquiring an Aries - It’s All About Excitement

It’s important that you don’t take on an Aries without a lot of energy. The irrepressible Ram can exhaust even the liveliest personality. Aries thrives in social situations and doesn’t care for solitude at all. For the intrepid Ram, the bigger the crowd, the better. If you can keep up, you’ll have a partner that provides you with endless adventures, generous attention, and a lively social life.

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