The 2020 year of the Rat is still going to find that process is hard for you, but at least you'll be able to do so a little bit smarter. You are not some lone creature destined to be alone. Romance and love are not easy for anyone. You just happen to have to work a little harder at it. 2020 is the year where you're finally going to learn that lesson. Like most important lessons, it's going to be a little hard for you to get there, but once you do, the value to you will be immense.
Start the 2020 year off right by getting yourself out there more, Cancer. January is when you're going to begin getting out and meeting more people in a variety of contexts. These don't have to be dates per se. These might just be work events or Meetups centered around an activity that you love, or just mingling with drinks during an intermission at the symphony. You want yourself out and about in a variety of contexts, mixing with a variety of people. Take your time with them, though. You're not just collecting phone numbers. This is the time for you to actively listen to what people say and immerse yourself in worlds that aren't your own. If you go to one of these events and only end up talking to one person, that's totally fine. Just be there fully for the experience.
Your family is going to be an important force for you - more than they usually are - in spring 2020. They may come to you with a problem of some sort, or you'll find that you need to rely on them more than you're used to (and maybe more than you're ordinarily comfortable with). This is a good thing and a wonderful opportunity to strengthen the bonds you have with them.
If they haven't made contact with you by mid-March, make the first move. They might well feel like they don't want to bother you. Get yourself with them and make sure they know they can count on you for what they need. Most likely it's just a listening ear, so be there for them and provide that. Any issues that may arise with them will abate by mid-May, so if you can be there for them at least until then, do so.
That networking you did earlier in the 2020 year (and that you hopefully have continued to do) will start to really pay off by early summer. A connection you made in January will reach out to you in June with an intriguing offer. This might well be a romantic connection of some sort, but don't rule them out if it's not. It could be a job offer, an investment idea, or a connection to a variety of other people who seem fascinating and possibly out of your reach. Take them up on this and check out what they have to offer. You're going to be meeting a lot of people this 2020 year and you should say "yes" to any similar opportunity that presents itself.
That's a lot of talk about networking and not a lot about romance. Well, in 2020 some potential love partners are going to emerge from that pool of contacts when you least expect it. Looking for love seldom works as well as just looking and being in the right place when love comes knocking. Be open to making that connection with someone you're not expecting to find it with. You'll no doubt surprise yourself. Out of this huge pool of potential friends and business contacts, there's a loved one waiting for you.
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