The 2020 year of the Rat is when you need to fix yourself, because you might well be the source of all your romantic woes. Venus is in your house for a good part of the year which means everything related to love and relationships is going to be highlighted and under close scrutiny. Think of it as being under a strong spotlight. The good thing is that everyone can see how great you are. The potentially bad thing is that they can see EVERY part of you, good and bad. It's a bit like a high definition TV. Now we can see the back of the scenery. This is not a bad thing. You're going to look at yourself and see what you're bringing to the table. If you're the problem, it's okay. You'll see what you can do to improve and be a better partner. The year 2020 is your year of growth.
Start January off right with a detailed inventory of what it is you're looking for in relationships. It might not sound like a lot of fun, but you're going to find it helps with your life across many areas. You're also going to see some parallels with things you want to be changed about you. This is no accident, Sagittarius, as we often look for what's missing in ourselves in other people. This list is going to help guide you in the 2020 year to come, so make it detailed and thorough.
Spring 2020 is a great time to spend talking with your friends about a subject very dear to you. Namely: you. This is the time to ask them: what are you doing wrong? It sounds harsh and maybe more information than you need to hear, but it's the perfect way to find what you need to fix in your life and see how you interact with others. Make a list of friends who you know will be honest with you and ask them the hard questions. Are you hard to be around? Do you treat people well? Don't shy away from the answers. Accept them bravely and move on. And make sure you pick up the check.
Autumn 2020 is when you're going to put everything you've learned into practice. Hopefully, by this point, you've made some course adjustments to the way you are and the ways in which you interact with people. Now you need to get out there and meet some new ones. These don't have to be dates necessarily, but they do need to involve you sticking your neck out to connect with people you don't know well. If there's anyone you've had any interest in, here's your chance to try and make a connection. If you're at a loss as to who to try and connect with, get yourself out to some mixers and networking events. The point is: you've got to do some fieldwork after all of this homework.
You've learned a lot about yourself in 2020, good and bad. Hopefully, as you're coming into December you're loving all those parts of you. This 2020 year of the Rat is a good opportunity for you to take all that in and process it. It's good not just for you, but for everyone you interact with and for any future partners in the years to come. If you've discovered that you're the one who has been the problem in most of your relationships, it's okay. It doesn't make you a bad person. Your redemption will come from facing that squarely and doing what you can to become the best person you can be.
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